宁被真实所憎，不被虚伪所爱。
It is better to be hated for what you are, than to be loved for what you are not.
— Andre Gide
【English explanation】
Andre Gide urges us to embrace our authentic selves rather than performing a false identity to win approval. Being loved for who you are not means that love is directed at a mask — hollow, unsustainable, and ultimately dehumanizing. It takes courage to stand in your truth, even when that truth invites rejection. True connection, however rare, is worth far more than widespread adoration built on deception.
【中文解读】
安德烈·纪德提醒我们：真实的被憎远胜虚假的被爱。戴着面具换来的喜爱，爱的不过是一具幻影，空洞而窒息。敢于以真面目示人，哪怕招致不解与排斥，也需要巨大的勇气。唯有以本真相待，方能收获真正深刻而持久的联结。做真实的自己，比做别人眼中的完美更有价值。
