浮生若梦，浅尝辄乐；深情太着，反成负累。
To enjoy life, we must touch much of it lightly.
— Oscar Wilde
【English explanation】
Oscar Wilde, the master of wit and aestheticism, argues here that joy comes not from clutching every experience tightly, but from engaging with life’s many facets with grace and lightness. Over-investment in any single moment or outcome breeds suffering. The art of living lies in savoring without being consumed—like a butterfly alighting on flower after flower, never weighing down the bloom it visits.
【中文解读】
奥斯卡·王尔德以举重若轻的智慧告诉我们：生命的乐趣不在于紧紧抓住一切，而在于以轻盈优雅的姿态与之相遇。对任何单一时刻或结果过度执念只会滋生痛苦。生活的艺术在于品味而不被吞噬——如蝴蝶掠过一朵又一朵花，从不压弯它停驻的花枝。
