the end of the line in the competition between people is the technique.what really makes a child to win is the independent personality,strong will and deep knowledge of society and human nature that the child has.（真正让孩子获胜的是孩子所具有的独立个性、坚强的意志和对社会和人性的深刻认识。）
ordinary family should not inverst a lot of money to let their children learn piano,dance,painting and other extracurricular classes,which actually belong to the level of memory.（普通家庭不应该花很多钱让孩子学钢琴、舞蹈、绘画等课外课等那些属于记忆水平的东西。）
